Category Archives: Leadership

Setting OTHERS Up For Success

I love to watch coaches.  When most people watch sports they watch the athletes to see how they perform and that is true of me too.  However, as a student of sports there are many times when I find myself watching the coaches.  The fact of the matter is that teams take on the personality of their coaches.  One of the main reasons that I don’t like the 49ers is because I don’t like Jim Harbaugh and you can see him reflected in the attitude of his players.  Jim is known to fly off the handle and you end up seeing displays like this one.

Teams reflect their coach.  This can either scare the crap out of you or inspire you!  People are watching you and the people you are leading right now will pick up traits from you, for better or for worse.

See the role of a coach is to set other people up for success.  If you are a football coach, you do everything in your power to build a solid game-plan and set your team up to chalk up another W.  Ultimately if you can prepare your team enough this leads to trophies, better, pay, etc. There was a time when every coach was the player and they decided the outcome of the game but now it all comes down to how well the team executes.

Our role in student ministry is very much the same.  Student ministries will reflect the personality of their leader.  The tension we face as student leaders is that our “playing days” are over, so to speak.  I will assume that if you are a pastor or leader then you are saved.  With that said, your job now is to lead a student to the point of accepting Christ and praying that that student makes Christ Lord of their life.  You can script out the perfect “game-plan” but it is up to our students to execute it.

As I was reading my Bible today, I saw this play out at the end of King David’s life.

So take this seriously. The Lord has chosen you to build a Temple as his sanctuary. Be strong, and do the work. – 1 Chronicles 28:10 (NLT)

Then King David turned to the entire assembly and said, “My son Solomon, whom God has clearly chosen as the next king of Israel, is still young and inexperienced. The work ahead of him is enormous, for the Temple he will build is not for mere mortals—it is for the Lord God himself!  Using every resource at my command, I have gathered as much as I could for building the Temple of my God. Now there is enough gold, silver, bronze, iron, and wood, as well as great quantities of onyx, other precious stones, costly jewels, and all kinds of fine stone and marble. – 1 Chronicles 29:1-2 (NLT)

See David wanted desperately to build the temple but God wouldn’t let him.  David could have taken one of two roads here.  David could have sat around and moped for the rest of his days but rather he decided to set Solomon up for success.  King David realized all that it would take to complete the temple and he set up the best possible “game-plan” to help Solomon succeed as the new King.  David’s “playing days” were over but he saw the potential in Solomon and did all he could do to help him win.  David recognized Solomon’s faults and helped transition him into prominence as Israel’s new king.

We need to take action to set those around us up to succeed.  Who are you investing in and who are you setting up resources for?  Everyone reading this post (parents, students, youth pastors, etc.) has the opportunity and ability to coach someone up so what are you doing to invest in the future?



Get In The Word

If I were to ask you what your time in the word looked like, what would your answer be?

  • I give God the first 15 minutes of the day.
  • I listen to pastors on podcast 3-4 times a week.
  • I read my Bible through every year.
  • I read my Bible when I prepare my lessons.

There are any number of answers that you could give to this question.  Some are good answers and some answers totally break my heart.  The first point that I want to make here in this post is to, GUARD your time in the word. This is my number one piece of advice I would give after a year of full-time ministry.  GUARD your time in the word and FIGHT for time with God.  If you do not guard your time in the word then you cannot be successful in anything else that you are trying to do.  There are a million things that vie for your attention each day from parents, to events, to counseling, but you cannot do any of those things if you don’t guard your time in the word.

The answer that breaks my heart the most out of the four that I listed above is, “I read my Bible when I prepare my lessons.”  This is like an accountant saying, I study tax code when I’m preparing your taxes.  This is like a doctor saying I study the newest surgery procedures when I’m prepping for surgery.  There is not one person out there that would say, “yes that is the doctor or accountant that I want to have.”

You were hired to be a shepherd of students!  A shepherd is not just one of the sheep, a shepherd is a leader who knows the dangers has lead sheep before and knows what it takes to get the sheep through the various obstacles in their way.  If you are going to shepherd your students, then you have to know where you are leading the students.  You have to know the word better than your students.

My second question to you would be, if you don’t have a desire to be in God’s word daily, why is that?  If God’s word is as life changing as you preach it to be, then why don’t you desire to be in it daily?  I am not by any stretch saying that reading the word is always easy for me to read but we need to be disciplined in knowing and reading God’s word.

The reason I say GUARD your time in the word and FIGHT for time with God is because if you are not spending personal time in God’s word then you cannot lead people into the depths of God’s word.  If you don’t GUARD your time in the word and FIGHT for time with God, then you may be successful for a time, but there is a shelf life on your ministry.

What are you doing to GUARD and FIGHT for time with God?


Quality “Ingredients”

Last week we bought an ice cream maker.  Probably not the healthiest investment, but definitely a fun and will-be-well-used one!  Aside from the richer taste, there’s something euphoric and nostalgic about making your own ice cream with your own ingredients.  Granted, we do have it much easier as our machine is fitted with a motor instead of having to churn it by hand.  But there’s still something special about it.

We haven’t had much time to try many recipes.  In an effort to try to make our ice cream low in calories, I found the first low-in-calories ice cream recipe I could.  Needless to say, this was not a wise choice.  Ice cream is meant to have cream in it.  Hence the name: ice cream.  So I should have figured our byproduct would leave something to be desired.  We had some leftover mixture from this batch, so I decided to add pudding mix, since we had an extra in the pantry, to thicken it up some and knock off the icy taste.  The second batch came out too strong on the pudding side of things.

So why do I tell you this?  Because ministry is much the same way.  We’ve often heard of the analogy of ministry needing to be a well-oiled machine, and this is true.  In fact, Jason wrote about an aspect of this on Monday – how our youth ministries should be run professionally.  But just as important as the machine itself (programming, events, vision, etc.), is what goes into the machine.  The better your ingredients, and the better your method of combining those ingredients, the better your product will be.

You won’t get high quality, rich ice cream without high quality, rich ingredients.  Likewise, you won’t get a high quality youth ministry without high quality people.  People are the ingredients that will make or break your ministry.


Youth Pastors/Coordinators: Be in tune to who you allow to influence your students.  I know many of you may be hurting for volunteers, so you’re willing to take whoever will dare to sign up.  Please don’t do this!  It takes a special person to be a high quality youth leader, and trust me that you don’t want sub-par influencers in your youth ministry.  Search for people who have a passion for young people and who have been given the spiritual gifts necessary to carry out this great task and responsibility.

Youth Leaders: Don’t sign up for the first open spot.  I personally have filled many roles in youth ministry: greeter, host teams coordinator, student leadership coordinator, small group leader, material writer/organizer, etc.  There are definitely certain rolls that I am better at than others, and that’s ok!  God wired us this way.  Figure out what your niche is and where God can best use you first.

Parents: You and your kids are necessary ingredients to your youth ministry.  Pastors and leaders will come and go, but your youth ministry wouldn’t exist without you or your kids.  I just want to encourage you to spend quality time pouring into your kids.  They need you more than anybody else, and God chose you to be their parent for a reason.  Also, get involved!  Ask where you can help out, because, chances are, they have just the right spot for you.



Have you seen people make or break your ministry?  Feel free to comment below.

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